Ever feel disappointed?
Disappointed because of what? There are denying promise? Doesn't get pocket money? Not pass the casting? Doesn't get friend treats? Whatever it is .. must have been disappointed. But do you conscious? The more we lament the circumstances, the longer we will suffer. Continue to how to eliminate, or at least reduce our sense of disappointment?
Let us refer to this one =>
While we are disappointed for not getting what we want things we need to do:
Disappointed because of what? There are denying promise? Doesn't get pocket money? Not pass the casting? Doesn't get friend treats? Whatever it is .. must have been disappointed. But do you conscious? The more we lament the circumstances, the longer we will suffer. Continue to how to eliminate, or at least reduce our sense of disappointment?
Let us refer to this one =>
While we are disappointed for not getting what we want things we need to do:
- We must trust and believe that destiny exists. Behold, Allah is always providing the best for us. What has happened, is the best thing for us because Allah chose this path for us. Allah knows the best. What we think is good, it could be very bad for us. And what we think is bad, it could be very good for us. But indeed we are commanded to make every effort to achieve what we want. The problem is reached whether or not our purpose, it is Allah's business. We are simply told to try.
- Keep in our hearts, "If it was not my part to get it, so even though I chased until whenever, I will not get it. If it was my part, it is not going anywhere." Be assured that Allah has given each of the parts for his servant. And we're not going to die, before we spend part of Allah that has been set, although only a grain of rice (says my teacher).
That way, we can feel more calm. Not too ambitious.
I hope it can be useful.
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