I'm sure all of you have felt in love. What are you feel at the moment? Your hears keep beating fast? Want to get her/him? Always want to close by him/her? Want to cared? Most of us feel that way if it will simply say "I'm in love". Is this true love? Then if someone asks "What is called love?" Perhaps up to this question, you still be easily answered. But if there is another question, "So what's the difference between love, affection and love??" Maybe we'll start thinking more. But it may also be there to answer "same". Is really the same?
We consider the example below:
* Dani like Maya cause she is very charming. Maya is his most beauty woman. He wanted to always close by maya and always tried to approach her. And always tried to make Maya loved his too. But when Dani saw Maya close to a male friend. Dani felt so hate. He wanted only he who can approach Maia.
Ever have that so? In my opinion, this is named LIKE.
(At the time you want to have it for your own selfishness.)
Contrast with this:
* Dani loves Maya. Although Maya is not so pretty, but Maia's personality has made Dani melted and want to always watch out and make her happy. Indeed, sometimes he wants to have Maya, but for Dani, Maia's happiness is the most important. He does not have to be side obtaining Maia. Whatever Maia wanted, he accepted.
Well, if you ever feel that way, then you've reached the stage of AFFECTION.
(At the time you wanted to make her happy and not for yourself).
Then what is LOVE?
Consider the following:
When you LIKE someone, you want to have it for your own selfishness.
When you love someone, you'd love to keep him happy and not for yourself.
When you LOVE someone, you will do anything for her happiness even though you have to sacrifice your soul.
When you LOVE someone and be there for them then you will ask, "May I kiss you?"
When you love someone and be there for them then you will ask, "Can I hug you?"
When you LOVE someone and be there for them then you will hold her hand tightly ...
LIKE is when she cries, you would say "Do not cry."
LOVE is when she cries and you will cry with her.
LOVE is when she cries and you'll let her cry on your shoulder saying, "Let's solve this problem together - together."
LOVE is when you see it you'll say, "She is very beautiful and charming."
LOVE is when you see it you'll see it from your heart and not your eyes.
LOVE is when you see it you'll say, "For me he is the most beautiful gift God ever gave to me .."
By the time you LIKE it, you'll force him to like you.
When you LOVE him, you'll LET CHOOSE.
When you LOVE him, you'll always be waiting faithfully and sincerely ...
LIKE is that you'll stay with her when it's profitable.
LOVE is you will accompany him when he needed.
Love is you will accompany him at the time how you are.
How?
It can be concluded?
Then you include which one?
Teenagers today are usually on if that is the heart beat faster when they are near someone and want to be nearby, they would be presumptuous to say "I love him/her." They are usually named LOVE for a lust. Because when we see someone then our heart beat faster, usually we will always want to look at him/her again and again. That just face it so wondelful for us. And this is lust.
In essence,
LIKE is a demand.
LOVE is giving and receiving.
LOVE is the thing that gives it willingly.
We consider the example below:
* Dani like Maya cause she is very charming. Maya is his most beauty woman. He wanted to always close by maya and always tried to approach her. And always tried to make Maya loved his too. But when Dani saw Maya close to a male friend. Dani felt so hate. He wanted only he who can approach Maia.
Ever have that so? In my opinion, this is named LIKE.
(At the time you want to have it for your own selfishness.)
Contrast with this:
* Dani loves Maya. Although Maya is not so pretty, but Maia's personality has made Dani melted and want to always watch out and make her happy. Indeed, sometimes he wants to have Maya, but for Dani, Maia's happiness is the most important. He does not have to be side obtaining Maia. Whatever Maia wanted, he accepted.
Well, if you ever feel that way, then you've reached the stage of AFFECTION.
(At the time you wanted to make her happy and not for yourself).
Then what is LOVE?
Consider the following:
When you LIKE someone, you want to have it for your own selfishness.
When you love someone, you'd love to keep him happy and not for yourself.
When you LOVE someone, you will do anything for her happiness even though you have to sacrifice your soul.
When you LOVE someone and be there for them then you will ask, "May I kiss you?"
When you love someone and be there for them then you will ask, "Can I hug you?"
When you LOVE someone and be there for them then you will hold her hand tightly ...
LIKE is when she cries, you would say "Do not cry."
LOVE is when she cries and you will cry with her.
LOVE is when she cries and you'll let her cry on your shoulder saying, "Let's solve this problem together - together."
LOVE is when you see it you'll say, "She is very beautiful and charming."
LOVE is when you see it you'll see it from your heart and not your eyes.
LOVE is when you see it you'll say, "For me he is the most beautiful gift God ever gave to me .."
By the time you LIKE it, you'll force him to like you.
When you LOVE him, you'll LET CHOOSE.
When you LOVE him, you'll always be waiting faithfully and sincerely ...
LIKE is that you'll stay with her when it's profitable.
LOVE is you will accompany him when he needed.
Love is you will accompany him at the time how you are.
How?
It can be concluded?
Then you include which one?
Teenagers today are usually on if that is the heart beat faster when they are near someone and want to be nearby, they would be presumptuous to say "I love him/her." They are usually named LOVE for a lust. Because when we see someone then our heart beat faster, usually we will always want to look at him/her again and again. That just face it so wondelful for us. And this is lust.
In essence,
LIKE is a demand.
LOVE is giving and receiving.
LOVE is the thing that gives it willingly.
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